Who Should Be Your Ring Bearer? Fun + Thoughtful Ideas for Your Wedding Day
When it comes to wedding day cuteness, few moments steal the show quite like the ring bearer’s walk down the aisle. Whether you're planning a classic ceremony or something a little outside the box, the role of ring bearer can be as sentimental or playful as you’d like — and it's all up to you.
So, who should you choose? Here are some of our favorite ring bearer options (and ideas!) to help you find the perfect fit for your big day:
👶 The Classic Route: A Young Family Member
Traditionally, ring bearers are little boys between the ages of 3 and 8, often a nephew, younger cousin, or the child of a close friend. Dressed in mini suits or suspenders and bow ties, they add instant charm to the ceremony.
💡 Stardust Tip: If your little guy is on the younger side, pair him with a flower girl or designate a trusted adult to guide him down the aisle (bonus points if they’re carrying snacks as backup!).
🐾 Furry Friends: Pet Ring Bearers
Is your dog your first baby? We get it. Pets make incredibly sweet (and well-photographed) ring bearers! Just make sure your venue allows animals and that you assign a handler to escort your four-legged friend.
💡 Stardust Tip: Attach the rings securely to a custom collar or decorative pillow, or have them walk down with a faux ring and let the best man hold the real thing.
👴 A Special Tribute: Grandparents or Honorary Family Members
Want to flip tradition on its head and honor someone close to your heart? Asking a grandparent or beloved elder to serve as your ring bearer is a heartwarming and unforgettable twist. It’s a lovely way to involve family members who might not otherwise have a formal role in the ceremony.
🧸 Adorably Creative Alternatives
The “Ring Security” Kid – Sunglasses, a briefcase, and a whole lot of confidence.
The Wagon Rider – Too young to walk? Let an older sibling pull your baby ring bearer down the aisle in a decorated wagon.
A Sign Holder – Instead of carrying the rings, your ring bearer can hold a cute sign like “Here Comes the Bride” or “Don’t Worry, I’ve Got the Rings.”
🎀 Who Carries the Real Rings?
Even if your ring bearer is on point, it’s a good idea to leave the actual rings with the best man or maid of honor — just in case. The ring bearer’s role is more ceremonial and sweet than functional (especially if they’re more interested in goldfish crackers than wedding bands).
📝 Final Thoughts
At Weddings by Stardust, we believe every moment should feel like you — from your entrance to the smallest details. Whether you go traditional, sentimental, or totally unexpected with your ring bearer, it’s one of those fun, flexible roles that lets you show off a little personality on your big day.
Need help bringing it all together? Our expert planners are here to help you craft a ceremony that’s as beautiful, meaningful, and unique as your love story.
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